I hate the title single mom. Urg!! It took me so long to reference myself as one.
You can prob still access my first threads on these boards but my exh never waivers back to his former self.
The bomb came from no where for me and there was never a glimmer of his former self.
He needed to demonize me in order to be with ow. If he at all saw me a human he could not have done what he did.
You are not alone. And your w Mlc has nothing to do with how you were as a w and as a mother.
Give yourself some credit for not loseing your cool more often in the past 3 months with your kids. It's not easy.
I hope this doesn't sound rude. The Mlc person always like to pretend that they were married and had kids by accident. That somehow it was not really what they wanted. In your sitch obviously you didn't have children by accident. It was a planned decision for your family.
I think your sitch provides us with an example of clear bs that they feed all of us.
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13