Oh Mighty- I'm so sorry to see where things are right now. Anger is helpful to propel you forward and remind you of your worth- use it to do that for you and not let him take advantage. I know it's so hard not to run over there and shake him! Asking him questions though- doesn't help either. He's answering you with the feeling of the moment- that's all he has. No depth until he works on himself. I get it- I tried to do the same thing. To "reach" the old H I knew somewhere in there. But it doesn't work- he's buried in baggage and has to dig is own way out.
You are not damaged goods- you are an amazing person and mother getting the $hitty end of an MLCer deal. Don't let him take away any of the amazing person you are! You can do this- focus on time with your kids. Let him spin on his own- it's the only way to survive this.
Sending hugs!!!
Last edited by daring; 02/03/1504:57 PM.
Me 41 H 40 M 20 T 23 S 19,16, 8 D 13 BD1 dec 2012 not sure going to work BD2 sep 2013 seeking a D Filed oct 2013, D Feb 2015 Life is about daring greatly, about being in the arena- Brene Brown
