OK I believe this move will get the schedule under control. We'll have a calendar we can both edit and any changes she wants to make will have to be approved by me and vice-versa.
She replied "OK that sounds great HP. How are you?"
I ignore her questions about me. The one time I didn't, she said she missed me and I took that too far. Still trying to find that balance.
I think I did well stating my position on the schedule while making it more collaborative and fair in a way that sounds supportive of W by asking for her help.
Finances next. Thank you everyone.
Me: 44 W: 45 S: 11 Married: 15 Together: 18 BD: 9/29/2014 OM discovered: 10/16/2014 I left her behind: 12/14/2014