I agree ... give yourself some slack here ... 3 kids .. I couldnt imagine. I do know my MLC'r W has fits getting S going in the morning (Again somehow this is my fault 20 miles away :D). I am not sure your routine ... and thats the trick for me .. routine. When I have S my alarm goes off at 5:30, I will snooze till about 5:45 and get up ... wash my face, brush and just get myself going a bit. Then promptly at 6:00 its tickle time ... he does not leave the bed without laughing ... EVER ... he gets brushes, dressed as I whip up his breakfast. There is no TV or any other distractions .. just business. He is in charge of getting the dog outside as I finish up ... in the car by 6:30 and he eats on the 20 minute drive to W's
The alien abduction is famous ...the more I read about MLC the more I realized W went into stage 1 about 3 years ago, and started going through the tunnels since .. seems once they hit Replay thats when the trigger flips and they revert into someone we just do not recognize. Thinking of them as deceased is an option, that one was tough for me honestly because I would catch glimpses of the old W here and there. I knew I had to let her go ... months of being here and detaching helped and the final hurdle was when I realized ... I am a single father, even IF W comes out of the fog ... she will never be the same and I had to accept that, the damage is intense .. she did things she would never do and when/if she wakes she is going to have a tough time dealing with the fallout ... so who knows 'who' she will be after this process .... so I let the W I knew and loved go ... yeah .. she is gone ... (dead just seemed to intense for me)
