Also I've noticed here (and from US collegues who have come over to the uk) there's a different perspective on what dating entails (at least in my age group - no idea in the 20 somethings to 30 somethings!)

The (unattached) guys I know from the US regularly go on 3-5 dates a month often with different women and just grab dinner/movie/bowling/trip out etc. Whilst my experience on dating is now 16 years out of date I tend to think of it more as one person you're looking to spend time with.

Maybe I was always just sheltered shocked


M:44, W:46, S:10
M 13 years, T 15
BD:23/7/2014
W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014
My new place: 21/11/2014
W/S back to flat 22/11/2014
W coming closer, talking 4/2015
Piecing 5/2015
Moving in again 6/2015