sorry to hear you're under the weather, I had the lurgy last week - I recommend a rum toddy if it agrees with you worked for me, or at least I didnt care about being ill afterwards.
MrB is right (again - he'll think Im cyber stalking him soon) it's really, really easy to write too much on email and text (check my old threads Im a past master at not knowing when to STFU and digging a hole climbing in it then continuing to dig before saying oh, bugger) theres some really good info on warm validation around in the books and also on here.
Basically though (as I mentioned to Jim this morning) I think its a tightrope act between warm validation and showing no hostility and not being completely absolving. Not easy, hang in there.
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M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015
