WAW Dating - Oh noes!!..

[LoveMyW]

Thanks for the reply Mr Bond..

Ok, what I meant by personal GAL is if I have something on later at night, or something I can't take kids to.. I already do A LOT of GAL with the kids, and nothing would change in that respect.. There aren't many sitters where I live, and I don't really have anyone to turn to if I do need a sitter..

I mean WAW can't be trusted to be relied on if I couldn't take them one day/weekend.. If W knows I have them, then her prospective plans would be made well In advance, so I can't rely on her to say "Ill have them" etc..

I understand that it isn't W's fault, but her offer stated that she could look after them when I couldn't have them.. Refer to my above paragraph as to why..

i didn't mean it to sound controlling, but I have seen comments on other peoples threads that point to needing to show WAW that these are the actions of her decisions.. I guess it doesn't apply here though from what you have said..

I'll take it onboard.. I am controlling my actions, and I'm trying to live to the best oft abilities.. I guess there is a loss of trust in my W along the line there somewhere..