I wasn't trying to be manipulative at all - maybe you're right, perhaps I do need to look at how I communicate. I just typed what I felt at the time and what was said by my W (It was my W that had put the "Its over" in the text, not me). When I said "Sorry I vented my sadness here", I was more meaning that I'm well aware that the people reading my posts are also going through a tough time, and I don't want to depress people by reading them. That has been mentioned to me before.
It wasn't with the intention to make anyone feel bad for the content of their replies. I know I need to be stronger with all of this, I am trying.
Barry.
p.s. Thanks for the comment about the kids, it is fairly impressive I know
Me 40 W 38 T 23 M 21 S21 S19 D16 S14 BD 19/12/2014 D mentioned 27/2/2015. I filed 08/04/2015, D Absolute 04/11/2015