So i just want to run this past you guys in case I am being over the top with my chirpyness
So last night I had two texts from her (back to back) which were all very business like (I read them as cold but they were just functional)
basically it was (minus a bit of extra detail
You need to cancel XXXX, I dont have the details, I've paid XXXX up to 20th. You'll need to sort it out after that as I dont have a number anymore. I'll forward you the number for XXXXX, You need to contact XXXX and either cancel or move membership. Its still showing on the joint account.
I responded (about 3hrs later)
Hey. No worries, I'll take care of it. If you think of anything else let me know. Hope you and the kids are good.
the other messages I've continued to use the odd phrasing and silly names for things that we always used when we were together. Its tiny interactions and really nothing but these are now the scraps i have to work with and i'd like to get this phase right from the outset
On other things i think given some of the conversations that have gone on recently around here i found myself asking the question about dating and whether its something i want to start thinking about. A phrase i've heard a couple of times that has been rattling around my head is that 'the best way to move on is to move on'. got mixed feelings on all this
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
