Boundaries are important. knowing your own personal values and beliefs help set those boundaries. I left my marriage because I wasn't being respected. My STBX was found ( still is ) a MLC. I will not live in an open marriage, I can forgive and understand someone gong through a crisis but you have to be sorry and want to change.

We teach people what we will accept and where our limits are.

Me 52 H 44
T9 M 5
BD 12/11 H
split 8/12
OW moved in 12/12
OW gone for good 6/14
We get closer again 9/14
SD 13 Me 4 Grown





Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.