Financials: I hear you about coming across as vindictive. I spewed about this to her months ago and she got mad, so I don't need to say that again. I just need to say I want you you to pay more of your share.
Relationship with boys: Good idea ganb8te. I do have grand ideas about what to do but then when I get home thay vanish into thin air.Got to write them down ... and then do them. I do read Edz & Jim's threads at times.
And meeting people: yup, I signed up for meetups and did go to a tech meetup once near home when I was back during the week. There are a couple that I could try out near the flat though.
Other ideas: try something you've always wanted to do or maybe even thought I never want to do. Such as skydiving or skiing/snowboarding (dry slope or Milton Keynes snowdome for me).
Thanks for your encouragement ganb8te.
M: 57 / EW: 52 T: 21, M: 8 S: 18, S: 15 Bomb: 1 Jun 14 EA Aug 2014 I think PA Feb 2015 possibly sooner