The awakening of me Part 3

[mleigh4]

Job - you called it. H is starting to grab stuff when I am not home. He cleared off a dresser today and took a candle holder that I can swear was a gift to me long before him. So I mentioned that and he got real defensive, said it was a gift to him. I told him ok, if he is sure, but I don't know.....

I am getting uncomfortable with him taking stuff when I am away. It's getting sneaky.

I also notice a definite change in attitude. He seems a little colder with a bit of an attitude. Got a little snippy when I asked if he could move his jeep so I could have my spot in the garage that I have parked in for 12 years and he took over with his dumb jeep weeks ago. Was only supposed to be for the night. I would move the dang thing myself if I knew how to drive a stick. My spot is convenient to load up my truck in the morning for work and school. Not trying to be difficult.

I wonder if he doesn't like my redecorating, filling up his empty spots? I know it hurt me a lot when I moved out, but come on! This is his choice. Or could be just that he is withdrawing now. Not sure.

Each time he leaves, he goes with paper bags of things at a time. He really doesn't know what he is doing. This whole moving thing has got him frazzled. This will take weeks at this rate!

Ok done venting. Thanks for letting me