I think he just didn't realize. He's not sensitive to your feelings now.
Some 10 years ago, I dumped my girlfriend. We had been dating just a little over a year, so it was nothing compared to what's going on around here. Still, she was devastated, because she thought I was The One for her, and that we'd start a family. Anyway, the day after we broke up, I emailed her and through the exchange, I realized that she was at her apartment, on a work day. I asked her why and she replied "I took the death-of-boyfriend leave". I replied "Haha! Does that even exist?"
I'm mortified today by this insensitive response. I was just elsewhere in my heart, not really mindful of her. I say you take that as a sign that you should look into the Facebook guy and more rather than have any hope that H is attuned to you.
PS: Why don't you say that to the bridesmaid: You'll get back in touch in April. Don't feel you have to please everyone or meet all of their expectations.
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