You are so right, raliced. I'm just making myself crazy for no reason because it is totally uninforceable. I would just love for him to consider our daughter's needs and comfort first for once. I need to leave it alone. Also, our conversation confirmed that he is still seeing this OW and is thinking about her in the long-term sense (he mentioned taking vacations with her and our D14). Whatever. Good riddance to him. I hope he takes her to visit his crazy family full of selfish, polyamorous narcissists. I'm sure she'll fit right in.
M: 43 H: 39 D: 14 Married 15 Together 16 BD: 6/2014 S: 8/2014 OW revealed 10/2014 Instigated dissolution 12/2014, in progress So over it!
