It really doesn't seem to have occurred to him. He was rather taken aback when I ended with "I don't know what to say to that so I guess I should go." I don't know if he's trying to make light so that it's not upsetting or what. *sigh*

And then one of the bridesmaids for the wedding I'm in in AUGUST asked "do you know what day you're having the bachelorette party so I can take time off?" Umm, no, I was going to not even start thinking about that until March or April... still overwhelmed.


Me:30 H:29, no kids
T:12, M:4 (when D was final)
12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore"
6/14: Separated (I move)
1/15: H filed for D
5/15: D final