It really doesn't seem to have occurred to him. He was rather taken aback when I ended with "I don't know what to say to that so I guess I should go." I don't know if he's trying to make light so that it's not upsetting or what. *sigh*
And then one of the bridesmaids for the wedding I'm in in AUGUST asked "do you know what day you're having the bachelorette party so I can take time off?" Umm, no, I was going to not even start thinking about that until March or April... still overwhelmed.
Me:30 H:29, no kids T:12, M:4 (when D was final) 12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore" 6/14: Separated (I move) 1/15: H filed for D 5/15: D final