KGirl, yesterday H started a conversation that I found disrespectful and rude. He totally didn't see it that way, it blew him away when I pointed it out. He said it never occurred to him, he was just making conversation. These WAHs either had no brains to start with, or what they had melted.
I especially like this one:
Originally Posted By: KGirl
H: So I should check the box that you want to change your last name back? Me: Yes. H: Are you sure? 'Cause [lastname] is a pretty cool name.
If we D, I intend to keep H's last name. I have had that name the same number of years I didn't, and it matches my three children. But....if I was 29, I'd change my name and never look back.