The awakening of me Part 3

[mleigh4]

Hi Lois. I have had a few minutes to let it sink in and the same thought came to my mind. If he wants to proceed further with something, he needs to come to me with it. I won't bring it up at all. I put the envelope with his mail to take, let him wonder if I saw it or not.

I did however read the articles. I figure I deserve the same information he gets! In looking closer, it is a magazine for police officers. My FIL is an ex cop. Such love and support from the in-laws, huh? I would bet that his dad came across the articles and gave to H. It is totally something he would do. He helps H in any possible way he can, even helping him to ruin his marriage.

Some background on FIL. I love him, he has a huge heart, but he just doesn't think sometimes. He helped me move out, even let S and I borrow his spare beds. After the fact, it actually hurt. I felt like he was helping the destruction of our marriage. Then once I moved back home, he was the one to tell me to move his beds to my house because H was going to use 1 in the spare room. Like we were talking about the weather. Yep, that was how I found out H was moving to spare room. I know in his mind he is just trying to help, but in reality, he is helping the destruction. This is something he should stay out of and have no part in.

So, he may have given this to H, possibly just for info. It doesn't mean he and H talked about it and it doesn't mean H asked for it.
And if H DID leave it out on purpose, oh well. Not getting off that easy


I will let it go. It's not like I don't know this is floating around us anyway, it just really took me for surprise. It hasn't come up in months, so I figured it was on the back burner.

On to enjoying my first night alone in a really long time.