Thank you Starsky. I need to talk to my DB coach about the new developments, but I only have 1 session left.. Thanks to anyone who has some decent advice about when D is becoming real.
Parallel to my efforts of detaching it feels like I 'recommitted' to my M. Instead of just letting it completely go, I have this feeling of complete understanding what went wrong, agree on our M wasn't fulfilling for neither one of us. But I have a vision of how a new R could work, it feels unreal tho. And obviously it's over, and I know it. As long as she is still working with OM the obstacle to gain feelings back is impossible. Weird feeling that I feel recommitted in the worst of all times.
Me 32 (German) Wife 28 T 3yrs M 2yrs Moved to US for W No kids BD 6/2014 In house separation Confirmed EA 1/2015 (ongoing since BD) OM not ready Real D talk started 1/27/15
