So, I made it clear to H that he cannot live in the same house as S14 and I while actively seeking affairs... so he has taken some clothes, and will be staying on couches with friends indefinitely, is my guess. My heart still really hurts, but I know that not seeing his every move will help me move forward, and help me not to hate his guts!!! LOL!!! I will take all the suggestions I can get on how to just deal...