Stacey, hold out for half the value of the assets total, not necessarily half of each asset. For instance, some W may be able to keep the house if they give up claim to a pension fund. So is there a way to get your half of the total without making this one asset a deal breaker?

But as far as I'm concerned, if you alienate him, who cares? Hasn't he taken care of that himself?


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