So, just a check in about the sitch....some goodness, I think. I'll take as many baby steps as I'm given right now.
Like I said, our conversation was different last week. It was like I saw glimpse of my W in our talk.
Normally on Monday's, I get a one line email about the kids "Kids were fine" or if she adds something else, it's about going closer to D (i.e. bills, finances, etc.)
Well today, she sent me a long email about the kids and setting things up for them in the near future, PreK for D4, school stuff for S5. Then she even said about me bringing his report card so she could see it. It doesn't seem much, but I was glad that she referenced it because it has seemed like she's been so distant with them.
Anyway, I'm not sure if it was me, her or just timing for both of us. I did use a 'Starsky'-like approach to the other week
"Its your decision W if you are comfortable about our current Communication about the kids or whether you want to improve it"
Anyway, it appears like the fog is lifting and DB aside, its good to see some of the motherly instinct coming back, while it seemed to be suppressed for the last couple months.
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)
