My STBX left two months ago. Our divorce will be final soon and I have cut all contact with him. Even when he picks up,the kids I don't see him. I had accepted the divorce and am trying to move on. Then out of the blue he text me on Saturday after he picked up the kids. He asked me to join them for breakfast the next day. I declined saying I had plans. The next day he text me again telling me it wasn't too late to join them. I declined again.

He is close to my mom and we have mutual friends. They all think he's regretting his decision. It's like another kick in the gut. I'm trying to move on but this messes with my head again. Any thoughts as to why he would do this and what I should do?


M12
Kids 2
ILYBINILWY 08/05
Reconciled 05/06
S07/12
Moved back 03/13
Separated Again 06/24/13
Back Again (his choice) 02/14
Leaving again 03/23/14
DIVORCED 02/15