He probably wasn't looking for you....he was looking for your wife and trying to see if she was with you.
OM's are much more cognizant of the deceitful ways of the wayward wife and don't trust them. They know that their greatest risk to losing their "girlfriend" is that she goes back to her husband. Thus...when he is NOT absolutely sure where she is...he double checks that she's not with you.
Had to fix that.
OM's can be sooooo controlling. <eek>
The internet is 90% complaining and entitlement and I hate it because I deserve better!