Calibri (3)

[Vanilla]

C,

Sorry for the hijack...I'd like to talk with Vanilla a bit.

Vanilla,

I respectfully disagree with your take on this. You are a very wise and good DBer....but...

It is a matter of perspective. In Mozz's case, he was not very nice to his W and his daughters which was addressed forcefully to get him to see how his actions have impacted his relations with his loved ones in a very negative way. And there's Calibri whose H, based on her reporting, has exhibited suicicial behaviors which should be taken very seriously which was not the time to be "forceful" in DBing here.

Based on C's reporting, it is only perfectly natural that she is very deeply concerned about her H given his family history and her workplace environment. She knows what she's talking about and I respect that part of her process.

It's not my place to judge C's reactions here IN THE CONTEXT of suicide.

Wonka
That is not the point I am making here. I totally agree with you on Mza sitch, always have and did.

I am not comparing sitches here.

I do not read Mza post as in any way a comment on suicide or depression, but no doubt he can comment on that for himself. Mza post is forceful. He is making the point about control and I personally find no rude intent in it nor a dismissal of the seriousness of suicide. If H is showing suiicidal tendencies or is talking that way then he needs serious medical intervention and that is urgent. It is crisis that must be addressed without delay.

V