Sorry for the hijack...I'd like to talk with Vanilla a bit.
Vanilla,
I respectfully disagree with your take on this. You are a very wise and good DBer....but...
It is a matter of perspective. In Mozz's case, he was not very nice to his W and his daughters which was addressed forcefully to get him to see how his actions have impacted his relations with his loved ones in a very negative way. And there's Calibri whose H, based on her reporting, has exhibited suicicial behaviors which should be taken very seriously which was not the time to be "forceful" in DBing here.
Based on C's reporting, it is only perfectly natural that she is very deeply concerned about her H given his family history and her workplace environment. She knows what she's talking about and I respect that part of her process.
It's not my place to judge C's reactions here IN THE CONTEXT of suicide.
