Wow. So, things got heated quick. But Mozza, unfortunately Im gonna have to take C's side on this one...when I read your post, first thought was...ok that was borderline rude...and I think you might have crossed that line this time- actually IMO, i know you did. Because what you said about the "how many people do you know die every week?" affected me too. Because in my line of work, people do die. All the time. And it [censored] watching it happen in front of your eyes. So id just be careful with what you say in the future, because depending on someones sitch (outside of DBing), you never know whats really going on.
-------- C, I think Wonka hit the nail on the head. And I agree, that asking him that you "hope to share some feelings" is a bit much right now...Id stick with the "Im always here to talk if you need it" and go from there.
What you said about making him feel safe, comfortable as a priority should definitely top your to do list for this. Let the dust settle. I know you still want this, so drive on.
ME: 28 W: 24 M: 2.5yrs T: 5yrs BD: 22 SEP 14 W Leaves: 5 OCT 14
