What should I do? Follow the advice of my my L and try to get half of what is legally mine (this is an asset owned by h and other family members) If I go ahead I fear this will alienate h even further(if that's possible). I'm also worried it could cause an irreparable family rift.

Or do I forego any share I may have in this asset to keep the peace?

We're not talking vast amounts of money but enough to make a difference to me. I am not greedy and would hate anyone to think I was. And I really don't want h to hate me over this.

What would you do if you were me?


Me - 44 Husband - 47
D20, S18
BD - Aug 2013
Moved out - Jan 2014
OW discovered Jan 2014