Thanks Wonka.

I'd been thinking about that particular boundary (disrespect and rudeness) and agree that it is probably the most realistic one at this point in time.

Feeling a bit better -- mentally/emotionally and physically. Still have a slightly scratchy throat, and hoping it doesn't get worse. Was able to get some laundry done and then spent a little time in prayer/meditation -- and this helped a bit with my mood. The anxiety is still there, just below the surface -- and I know I just need to keep doing things that help me work through it.

Just got a couple of new books in the mail that I am really looking forward to reading:

Love as a Way of Life by Gary Chapman
Mindset by Carol Dweck

Bought both with the intention of learning strategies and behaviors that will help me in all aspects of life -- most especially in my parenting which really has become my focus over this past week of being home with just my kids and myself.


Me 48, Her 50
(Same-Sex Couple)
3 Children
Together: 9.5 years before BD
BD: Week of 10/27/14
ExW started EA w OW 9/2014
ExW married OW 12/2015