Hi Barry - sorry you had to hear that from your W. As you'll read in the book, WAS's tend to talk in 'absolutes' - much as your W is doing - This is it for us. We'll never get back together etc. The ultimate outcome may be quite different - you just don't know that yet.

It's early days yet and read the book. It will help you understand this further. Also, the book may help you develop a more optimistic approach. On this forum, you sometimes present an air of hopelessness - an area you could work on for sure. This may be what Mozza is referring to in his posts above (sorry if that's not the case Mozza.)

Hang on in there and keep posting....I want to see determined, optimistic Barry....

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
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BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus