My angry actions were a step back. I am aware. But that was ONE day. That wasn't a pattern of behavior. It was a day when I gave into my emotions. I have been giving him space by not asking him, EVEN ONCE, what is going on with our relationship. I haven't asked him when he is moving out, I don't check in with him, I don't follow him around the house. I keep my questions short and to the point. I stopped saying I love you, I never try to make physical contact with him.
The advice I got from the retreat people was, "Continue to do your part. Dialogue everyday and if he is not willing to reciprocate, at least present your letter to him every night.
You attend the Post sessions even if he doesn't and make sure he knows ahead of time that you are going. With you showing how important the program is to you, God can use that to poke at his heart."
Thoughts? Is this a total mistake?
Me:30 H:31 D1 T: 7 years M: 3.5 years BD: 12/2014 3 month S starts: 2/2015
