This can't be the end! #2

[hjoseph]

Barry,
You can choose to believe it's not over and continue to fight. I've read of couples piecing after D was filed. If that is your choice, you will have to fully commit to what you will learn here.

Also, you can choose to accept what she texted.

Fortuitously, both options will require you to do the exact same thing. LET HER GO. Live for you and only then you will have the tools necessary to either piece your M back together or move on to someone else. Read the advices on this board and put them in your tool box.

I don't know what advice the vets will give you. My advice to you is to immediately cease contact. You just received your pink slip as a H. If you can't seem happy around her about being fired, fake it. Look as if you've moved on. It will be hard, but it will do you wonders for your self-esteem. As men, it means a lot to us to be wanted so its important to detach from her and seek something else to replace that need.

She only be attracted to you if you look attractive.

Good luck and good hunting.