W even told me "not to focus on the OM" because he's not the reason why she wants D. Our marriage was going to end with it without him I need to focus on myself, I have great potential and should take this as an opportunity for growth.
She might be right, I mean she IS, but it's underplaying the role of OM and her views on how fast she wants to end M is just....I don't know. She tells me we HAVE to physically separate. She sees I'm still suffering and she's right, she wants to make the cut. She says she might stay alone forever. Bc she probably can't find someone she loves the same way she'll get loved.
I'm so confused how she's turning the whole DBing around telling me the things DB is teaching. What's that all about??? And I'm nor over her, my life is still upside down and I'm not 100% functional. But I know it's not heatlhy to stay together right now. I don't know what to think of what she's doing now I'd appreciate if someone would give it a thought! Thanks!!!
Me 32 (German) Wife 28 T 3yrs M 2yrs Moved to US for W No kids BD 6/2014 In house separation Confirmed EA 1/2015 (ongoing since BD) OM not ready Real D talk started 1/27/15
I need to focus on myself, I have great potential and should take this as an opportunity for growth.