Post retreat situation

[Marylov]

Since I started posting I have tried to “get a life” by not just mopping around the house. I go on walks, go run errands, take my daughter to my parents house…I have been trying to stay busy without doing anything that might seem like I am neglecting my H, since that is what got us here in the first place. I have also tried to use the affirmation tips, and not arguing with him but just listening. One thing that I really tried to do is empathize with him, and not be dismissive of his feelings. I have tried to act like the wife I should have been all along, while giving him space. But I don’t feel like I am making any progress. AT ALL. And I feel like a sitting duck. Because he hasn’t mentioned ANYTHING about what he is thinking, or what his plans are. So I am just waiting for him to tell me his move out date.