I think everyone is emotionally immature until they have a reason to grow up. Some people do it gradually others its a big change.
Personally i feel that I have emotionally matured a lot in the last few months because I chose to in an effort to save my marriage. I could have taken very different routes through all of this and at times i nearly have until I've stopped to think why am i doing XYZ?
dont get me wrong plenty of times my emotions have got the better of me and i've said something hurtful or pursued in a way i shouldnt or simply let my flight reflex win.
Any time my wife has got upset at me she has shut down or called me names. My IC has said (based on my description) she is behaving like a teenager
Hope you had a good afternoon. You cashing up again?
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
