Yes, just focus on what is. It's hard not to try to anticipate the future, I know. And it's hard not to miss the illusion of who we thought our H's were. But there are plenty of men out there who would love to eat your fried chicken and snuggle while watching football -- if and when you are ready for that in your life again.
M: 43 H: 39 D: 14 Married 15 Together 16 BD: 6/2014 S: 8/2014 OW revealed 10/2014 Instigated dissolution 12/2014, in progress So over it!