Been working this morning, and lunch is on the go now. Bookstore volunteering this pm and mum-sitting after that. No response from the L yet.

Someone posted an interesting comment on their thread about emotional immaturity. I think most LBS's here on the forum develop greater emotional maturity, just to get through the crisis, and in our desire to save ourselves and if possible the M.

Since I read this comment (by complex?) I have been thinking about how emotionally immature my H has been - telling me by email about his A, telling others our R is over, but not me, not expressing his needs/concerns before walking away...

Is that a product of becoming a WAS, or possible MLC? Was he always that way? In any case, it does create a mismatch in that the LBS has moved forwards in EM and the WAS not so, or even moved backwards..

Just journaling what's been on my mind recently. Hope everyone is having a good Monday!

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus