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[edz]

Hi Jim

no such luck on the convent, could probably work with that (that sounds *so* wrong).

Next steps, mm, right now just letting her have space and warm validation and support and demonstrating 180s and relationship with s. tricky since the primary other issue was my codependency in our m its tricky to "do" anything without appearing to pursue. I think if I show Im no longer so insular and more outgoing that will help which is what i'm doing with s and w. Moving on from there is where I start to hit a speed bump.

Right now (unless "the thing" blows it all apart) the space and then warm validation and "family" time together seems the best way forward but I'll welcome suggestions on my sitch obviously.

I'll have a look on Hp's thread this evening as well.

Thanks Jim.