Really struggling to get past the idea that your wife is joining a convent.

your doing good stuff so keep on with what your doing, but give some thought to the idea of next steps.

Have you seen the castle and picnic metaphor (i think HP's thread has it) - can you make your picnic just a little bit more inviting?


Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress