Ganb8te 4 - Putting on my giraffe ears

[jim0987]

That could be quite some battle..... I hope they are using pugil sticks

I have enough of a battle with what type i am, I normally score as INTJ but occassionally ENTJ but based on the descriptions i've read i identify most with INTP (definately NT though)

In this context, I meant: finish line = ready for next R. If I get to the finish line and he's no where to be seen then I will start dating. Not in a vindictive way, but in moving my life forward kind of way - I want to share in life's adventures with someone. At the moment I feel like I may need to load my saddle with weights to give me a bit of a handicap.

I really like this thought. To me it says a lot of really good an important things particularly the bit in red.

I asked edz this the other day. If you knew 100% that H wasnt coming back and you had that 'necessity of change' what would you do tonight/tomorrow/this week that would be different?

OK and so if you did that what about that would stop you reconcilling if your H turned up tomorrow begging for you to take him back?

I ask because sometimes the best way to move on is to move on, and you never know that might just be what brings them with you.

ISTJs need to remember to take care of themselves - their stubborn dedication to stability and efficiency can compromise those goals in the long term as others lean ever-harder on them, creating an emotional strain that can go unexpressed for years, only finally coming out after it's too late to fix.