agree with everything youve said Sad36. My wife is the same. I just dont understand how she can rationalise what she is doing. destruction of a family unit for what is most probably a fantasy pipe dream. I had a lot of blame aimed at me in the last 6 months. When i found out 2 weeks ago and read everything i could on affairs and the fog it is a very common tactic. From the outside looking in, her decisions dont make any sense. If this was someone else she would be mortified. But with the chemicals causing through her veins and with no attempt to stop she will continue to make decisions which seem to defy belief.
Me:40 W:35 D:8 T:13 M:10 WAW: 7/14 PA Discovered: 1/15 at least 6 months Moved out and moved on