WAW affair admitted 2

[Ontheup]

Wife is being all friendly and needy again this morning looking for me to justify her actions. She hasnt contacted me this much since the 2 weeks ago before i found out. here is part of her email this morning

"I was all clingy this morning with her. She just buggered off into class and didn’t even line up! I went back to check with (teacher) as they were walking in and she said she’d gone to read quietly. Bloody hell. No bye nothing."

Now i know she feels sh1t to and i feel bad about that. But this is her choice. She has to get used to that as its going to get a lot worse regarding our d8

I replied in part with

"D8 won’t have meant anything by it, she will just be excited to get in school. You know that"

Im trying to keep friendly but not give in to her needing me to say its all alright what she is doing because it isnt. I know she feels guilty and in pain to but she has to see the effects her actions are having on our family. Im no angel but no way would i split my familiy up willingly. As far as im concerned our issues could have been worked out but she made a choice to put her want to be with someone else above resolving our marriage. The flip side to her feeling great with OM is the pain it causes everyone else.