For some reason it never seemed to work (well) for me through circles.
Before meeting w I had a couple of r's through people I knew through (but not at) jobs or friends etc but they didnt really go anywhere.
Probably a combination of being introverted a little shy (back then anyway not so much 16 years later).
For now Im not actively looking but who knows what will happen, w may want to try or may get swept off my feet (unlikely, that may require a fork lift)
M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015