The common signs of an affair

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In my sitch I think my wife has convinced herself she's not having an affair... Though she most certainly is! The ability of people having A's to post rationalise is staggering!

But all the classic signs were said/done.

I love u but not in love with you
Can't see any happiness in the past in the relationship
Accused me of being controlling (really I felt her slipping away so natural reaction)

And many more, deep down I think you know if it's happening.