newbie needs help part 5

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Its been 3 weeks since my last post. Today we told the kids. My stbxw was a nervous wreck today. I wrote a suggestion for her to say too the kids.I was with her and let her do the talking. I thought it was important for her to be the one to talk since this was not something I wanted. I told the kids I loved them and that I would always be there for them. I am going to stay at my sisters house 10min away and take them to school in the mornings.the D process is still in the works and If I need to I will move back home. But it has been a year and I am in a place where I really don't want to be around my w. She is a control freak and thinks she will still tell me what to do. I asked her to give me a schedule and to stick to it. I don't plan on speaking with her anytime soon. The kids are in shock. The twins 6yr old boys are asking alot of questions. Like who wanted this and why can't we get along.