I sent her a text just now apologizing for my reaction to her travel and wishing her well on her trip.
Are you serious?
Hello Sandi. Yes in the scrum of things last night I thought she said she was flying out with her boss. I listened to her VM again and she did not say that. I reacted to that miscommunication as her lying again so I apologized for my misunderstanding and my reaction. I was wrong.
She still understands she was wrong about not letting me know about the trip. I took it as a chance to admit my mistake and better communication.
Me: 44 W: 45 S: 11 Married: 15 Together: 18 BD: 9/29/2014 OM discovered: 10/16/2014 I left her behind: 12/14/2014