Thanks for dropping in on my thread, Lisa. You said there has been no contact between you and H in weeks. So what's your plan form here?

It's 8 months separation to the day for me (so ~9 months post BD). I just feel like I've hit a wall and need some clarity. Things are coming to a head on many other people's threads that I've been keeping track of since I joined (Maybell, Ss, Calibri, Mozza). As for my own sitch, I feel like this could go on indefinitely...and I'm not ok with that.


H 37 Me 36
Together 15 years
Married 5 years
No kids
BD Apr 2014
H moved out 2 Jun 2014