Wow, Twin. You have an interesting series of dynamics going on in your relationship and within him.

Just the way you describe him above, you do so lovingly, I know you want to save your marriage. Is he committed?

Me 47 - W 35
M 9 - T 10
2 Daughters - 7 & 9
Discovery of EA- 8/4/14
S - 8/5/15
D mentioned - 9/11/14
R & Piecing - 3/17/15
Regard one another as more important than yourselves.
- Philippians 2:3