WAW affair admitted 2

[Ontheup]

Been skating today with D8. was great till she tweaked a muscle after an hour an we had to call it a day ! never mind.
On way home I was feeling angry. Im tired as not getting much sleep.
Anyway thrashing over in my head about wife and OM
My friend from last night said the same thing you here on these boards. His wife had a plan regarding leaving. And she did. Old school flame lined up who she married but now says she still in love with her 1st hubby my friend.
Anyway was thinking about excuses and Sh1t wife has come up with
She said it is not about OM. it clearly is. Although we have issues in our marriage no way would she be splitting her family up over them. If he wasn't around we could have resolved them.
I asked if she was going to live with him which she said no as he is in London anyway. So that confirms she is continuing it but annoying really they wont be going official with this as I believe it would die a death pretty quickly. The flaws would come to the surface pretty fast.
She is breaking our M up cos she is in the fog for her bus partner who's track record is shocking. He has 2 failed marriages and 3 kids and he doesn't give much of a sh!t about any of them from what i've read.
My wife seems to think we are all going to be one big happy family because that is what happened with her mum and dad. Her Dad and an affair, they separated but he was around at wife's house regular even though was with OW. What did happen though was wife's mum died a few years later and not too long after Dad split with affair partner and has never had a normal relationship since. That was 25 years ago.
Im carrying on as normal for now for sake of our daughter. When I move though which is her choice not mine I cant continue with this. I need to move on which is impossible whilst she is with OM but still wanting to be my best friend.
Will he man up and take her on. Or is he sat there now thinking sh!t what the hell have I done. I don't know and shouldn't care. I cant wait to get out. Get my lfe and self confidence back. No doubt it will be hard especially with D but my friend last night gave me confidence in how his daughter handled it.