train, 25yrs, others who kept up on my sitch

[twinmom]

Jefe, during his first marriage he had two affairs. My relationship being the second. During the first affair he told his wife (after 4 years of marriage) he was leaving her for another woman. He "came to his senses 3 days later"

He was with his ex wife for 14 years, married for 8 years. They didn't have any kids. They had been trying for a while without success. Side note, his ex wife is remarried and very happy, still without kids though so I think it's a fertility issue with her :-(

He is the oldest of 5 boys and in every other area very mature. He is driven at work and constantly looks to succeed. He is EXTREMELY competitive. Beyond loves sports, as in he runs 2 fantasy football leagues, constantly watches certain teams and reads everything he possibly can about the players and coaches. He knows so much about his favorite teams (Duke basketball, Notre Dame football, Cubs, Bears and Payton Manning)

He is the only one of his brothers to have a college degree. Besides previously not giving a sh!# about his kids growing up in the "traditional" sense of the term haiku he is an excellent father. He always puts their needs first and is very mature and responsible.

I know years ago he had a gambling problem and had to file bankruptcy. He seems to have learned his lesson and ever since I met him he is very responsible and mature regarding financials.

He is conflict avoident to an extreme.