I know that we won't be D or talking about D with the way things are going so right now this strategy is "safe." But you don't really get to where you want without taking risks do you?
What do you think? Am I being too chummy to my W?
Imo, 4 months in? No, you are not being too chummy. Something I've read here and many other places, is that us guys take a month or so to believe a change is real, whereas women take 3-6 months...and my sitch bore this out. You are getting positive change...Just keep an eye on the pursual aspect on your end. Have you read the thread on the distancer/pursuer dance?
As far as the risk vs safe? There may be a time for risk, and, you will know when that time is, trust me, you will know, without a doubt.
Risk at the wrong time is.... ?
Besides, you are already taking a risk by DB-ing... know what I mean??
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
